The Groom's Points in the Past.. Shawal of Sugar and Halal Head Instead of Money How were the groom's points in the past? The points were not just money like today; they carried the meaning of help and solidarity, some would bring a shawal of sugar, bulgur, flour, or lentils, while others would offer a 'qudah'.. a halal head or a sheep or goat, as a gift to the groom and his family. A story from the old Jordanian wedding customs, revived by Awn Al-Khalaila in the 'Sawalef' program on Alrai. #Alrai #Sawalef #AlraiMedia #Jordan #JordanianHeritage #CustomsAndTraditions